Everyone is getting attached. love is in the air... This reminds me of "Love Actually", one of my favorite movies. And "Love Actually" means Christmas (Noel in French and Vietnamese) the most beautiful moment of the year. All the arguments or disappoitments came to an end just for Noel.. the lovely feeling that one has in this season make it impossible to feel angry (at least for me). A bit out-of-point talking about Noel in April, but all love stories make me think of Christmas (Noel 2003 and all other Christmas that i've spent and will spend with you). And for my clique girls and guy, who are not "in a relationship" yet, oneday, may be during Noel, Santa Claus will send the right one down... noone knows.
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It's a little problem for girls who have close guy friends. I asked Rayner before what it'll be like if oneday he has a girlfriend, well, obviously I wouldn't dare to talk over the phone for 2 hours to him just because my friends told me some silly ghost stoties and I didnt dare to sleep. Story narators are Sharmaine, Weimin, Albert, MingYong, Irene, Angeline,KhaiLeng and Qing Wen if I remember correctly, with the ghost-in-the-blanket story told by weimin that scared the hell out of me.
It's different for a close girl friend, when Thanh Ha, and my other girl friends, got attached, we can still go out, chat over stupid things, pop by for a dinner and everything. Of course we won't spend so much time hanging out like previously but attached or not, the things that we do don't change much.
Rayner used to tell me that everything would still be the same because his future (don't know when it'll be) girlfriend will be very easy-going and she'll like me, and i'll like her too. But how? Even if it's the case, I'll feel paiseh myself, obviously i wont dare to 'bully' him like i'm so naturally used to. Don't get me wrong, it's not that i don't want him to have a girlfriend, i just wonder how it'll be like for the friendship, and a bit worried that i'll say or do some silly things that make my guy friend's gf feel uneasy.
I never like my guy friends in any way that's more than friendship ( really platonic friends cos i'm a faithful girl heh.. and you know it the best heehee), it's only natural for everyone to feel closer to some people than to others, guys or girls.
It goes to show that, we've all grown up in one way or another. When we grow up, childhood or teenage friendship may be over taken by other priorities in life that we are gonna have, and all this will slowly shape the way we treat our old friends. It is not whether it's good or bad, it's just an inevitable part of life. It doesn't matter much the way we behave, (because a little boy/girl acts in a different way as a teenager, a teenager behaves differently
as a young gentleman/lady, and a young gentleman/lady doesn't do the same stuffs as an adult) what is most essential is that we treasure our friendships. And in certain cases, it's not even natural that friendship strengthens with time, for it sometimes takes much effort to keep a friendship from unknowingly fading away from your busy and stressful life.
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It's a little problem for girls who have close guy friends. I asked Rayner before what it'll be like if oneday he has a girlfriend, well, obviously I wouldn't dare to talk over the phone for 2 hours to him just because my friends told me some silly ghost stoties and I didnt dare to sleep. Story narators are Sharmaine, Weimin, Albert, MingYong, Irene, Angeline,KhaiLeng and Qing Wen if I remember correctly, with the ghost-in-the-blanket story told by weimin that scared the hell out of me.
It's different for a close girl friend, when Thanh Ha, and my other girl friends, got attached, we can still go out, chat over stupid things, pop by for a dinner and everything. Of course we won't spend so much time hanging out like previously but attached or not, the things that we do don't change much.
Rayner used to tell me that everything would still be the same because his future (don't know when it'll be) girlfriend will be very easy-going and she'll like me, and i'll like her too. But how? Even if it's the case, I'll feel paiseh myself, obviously i wont dare to 'bully' him like i'm so naturally used to. Don't get me wrong, it's not that i don't want him to have a girlfriend, i just wonder how it'll be like for the friendship, and a bit worried that i'll say or do some silly things that make my guy friend's gf feel uneasy.
I never like my guy friends in any way that's more than friendship ( really platonic friends cos i'm a faithful girl heh.. and you know it the best heehee), it's only natural for everyone to feel closer to some people than to others, guys or girls.
It goes to show that, we've all grown up in one way or another. When we grow up, childhood or teenage friendship may be over taken by other priorities in life that we are gonna have, and all this will slowly shape the way we treat our old friends. It is not whether it's good or bad, it's just an inevitable part of life. It doesn't matter much the way we behave, (because a little boy/girl acts in a different way as a teenager, a teenager behaves differently
as a young gentleman/lady, and a young gentleman/lady doesn't do the same stuffs as an adult) what is most essential is that we treasure our friendships. And in certain cases, it's not even natural that friendship strengthens with time, for it sometimes takes much effort to keep a friendship from unknowingly fading away from your busy and stressful life.
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